We all falter sometimes. If you want to get back on track with your healthy low carb or keto diet, keep reading. The best tips from the low carb experts!
Okay, so you fell off the wagon with a resounding thud. Maybe it was a one-time indiscretion and you just cheated a little, or maybe you’ve been off the wagon for days or weeks. Or even months. But you’ve picked yourself up and you want to clamber back on as soon as possible. You’re covered in dust from your fall, you ache all over, but that wagon is sitting there waiting for you, ready to welcome you back with open arms. All you have to do is put one foot in front of the other.
Sounds easy but sometimes it can seem absolutely monumental. I get it. I am writing this because I had a little fall of my own recently. It was only a meal’s worth of cheating but it made me feel absolutely awful the next day. Shaky, bloated, exhausted, tummy issues, the works. In spite of that, or perhaps because of it, I knew I had to get back on track right away. My health is too important to me to let things go any further. But I know I will fall again and so I thought it might be helpful to talk about those little tips and tricks that help you get back to your healthy diet a little more easily.
1. Whatever you do, don’t beat yourself up! If you read nothing else but this one tip, that’s fine. But please take this advice to heart, because it is far and away the most important tip I am going to share. I am part of a lot of forums for low carb and Keto diets and there is always someone flagellating themselves for cheating, for failing, for not having the willpower to stick it out. Well guess what? We ALL fail at this sometimes. Let’s face it, we live in a sugar and gluten-filled world. Unless we are hermits that don’t ever leave the house, we are faced with temptation daily – at work, at social functions, on television, on the internet. It’s all around us and the wonder of it is that we don’t give in more often!
I find it heartbreaking sometimes, the way people who slip beat themselves up. Just think about it for a second. You wouldn’t talk to a friend or a loved one that way when they’d slipped, would you? Then why on earth do you talk to yourself that way? And let’s be honest, some of that self-loathing might be part of what brought you here in the first place. So take a deep breath and repeat after me. “I am human. I had a moment of failure. And I will probably fail again. That’s okay. What’s important is that I keep on trying”. In the immortal words of Taylor Swift, shake it off!
2. Don’t excuse your behaviour. Own it. So I said we all fail sometimes, and we do. But that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t hold yourself accountable. It isn’t someone else’s fault that you scarfed down that pizza or dove head first into a plate of Oreos. Be an adult and recognize that you did this to yourself and the consequences suck. And then ask yourself why. Did you forget to eat before you went to the party and arrived so hungry you monopolized the buffet? Were you running errands all day, taking kids to soccer and not stashing a low carb high fat snack for yourself? Or was emotional eating? Or boredom eating (which I am very prone to!)? Or did you do the old “oh one bite won’t hurt. Okay maybe three or four bites won’t hurt. Oh hey…somehow I ate the whole thing!” Then make note of the situations in which you are more likely to succumb to temptation and do your damnedest to avoid them. Preparation is key!
3. Take notes or keep a journal. You feel pretty bad, don’t you? Beyond the guilt and anger at yourself, you probably don’t feel very well physically either. Going off the rails and eating carbs and sugar with abandon might seem pretty fun at the time, but most of us experience some serious discomfort the next day. Tummy aches, head aches, inflammation if we have dietary sensitivities. It isn’t pretty, but it can also be good motivation for getting back on track. Sadly, however, it’s quite easy to forget how awful certain foods make us feel once we are feeling better. Writing it down can help a great deal. Remember how you used to re-copy your notes in high school, in order to better remember them for a test? Same thing here. The simple act of putting it in writing makes it all the more real and vivid. But be sure to write down how much better you feel when you stick to the plan too. A great comparison for future reference!
4. Eat Salad for Breakfast. Or don’t eat any breakfast at all. For me, eating a whole plate of low carb vegetables is like hitting the reset button. It feels clean, it tastes clean, and I swear it cleans out my head a little too. A large part of that may be mental, like feeling as if I am eating the antidote to a poison I consumed the day before, but it hardly matters. If it helps reset my palate, it’s a good thing.
But it’s okay to skip breakfast too, as long as you don’t see it as a punishment for the prior day’s indiscretions. Intermittent fasting is widely recognized as a healthy practice, and it’s also a great way to hit the reset button. And just giving your body a chance to work through all the junk you ate before you eat anything else is helpful. Wait until you truly feel hunger again before sitting down to another meal is crucial. Then be sure to your next meal is solidly low carb or keto. Be sure to savour it and enjoy it, to remind yourself of why this way of eating is worth sticking to.
5. Get Moving! My husband taught me that the best cure for a hangover is a 5k run. No, I am not kidding, it works. And it works for food hangovers too. You aren’t going to feel great when you get out there. In fact, you will probably feel a little like dog poo. Or a lot like dog poo. It won’t be your best athletic performance ever. It may even hurt a little at the beginning and you will wonder why the heck you are doing it. But afterwards, you will feel so much better and you will be that much further along to ridding your body of the junk you ate. It doesn’t have to be a run or anything super high intensity. But you do want to raise your heart rate a little and it helps to break a sweat. It helps your body digest a little better, it clears your head, and it helps your cells uptake the extra insulin and glucose that might be floating around in your blood stream. And, if I can be frank, it helps get your bowels moving too. Which we all know makes us feel better after a binge!
6. Sip water and other clear, low carb liquids. A bit cliche, perhaps, but I find this to be crucial in flushing out my system. Don’t go overboard and drink gallons upon gallons or you will dilute the critical salts your body requires. But simply sipping at a cool, clear liquid can make you feel a little more on track. If you’re sick of the taste of water, herbal teas (hot or cold, with or without sweetener) can help. And if you’re prone to boredom eating, as I am, sipping something with a little flavour can help ease the urge to stuff your mouth.
Need something a little more satisfying and comforting? Try sipping warm bone broth to fill you up without carbs. Also try adding a little turmeric to your bone broth for both flavour and the anti-inflammatory properties. All the carbs and sugars and such you’ve been eating can aggravate inflammation so anything you can do to mitigate it will make you feel a lot better.
7. Cut out the alcohol. I’m a girl who likes her nightly glass of wine and I am not afraid to admit it. But after succumbing to temptation, I find I am better to skip the wine for a day or two. I am working on flushing the toxins out of my system and there’s no question that alcohol is a toxin. And given its propensity to lower our inhibitions, wine makes me less likely to stick to the plan of getting back on track. So a few days of tee-totalling make me feel more clear-headed and healthy.
8. Find a buddy or a support group. The benefits here are twofold: support and accountability. Sometimes we really suck at making promises to ourselves. They’re only in our head after all, so it’s pretty easy to pretend we never made them in the first place. But when you say it out loud to a friend or a support group, you feel it’s that much harder to break. And in this day and age, there’s simply no excuse for not having someone to make promises to. Even if you don’t have any in-person friends that support this low carb lifestyle, there are numerous groups and forums. And most of the time, people are incredibly supportive and helpful, with amazing ideas to help you stay the course.
9. Don’t deprive or punish yourself. Whatever you do, don’t go nuts and exercise like a fiend while subsisting on salad for days on end. That’s never the way to do it. If you feel deprived, you will almost inevitably succumb to the next round of temptation. I’m the rebellious type myself. When I feel restricted or limited, I tend to lash out in frustration and thumb my nose at the limitations, going overboard in the opposite direction. And a proper low carb diet should be the antithesis of deprivation anyway. So fill up on those good healthy fats to keep your appetite and cravings under control.
10. Search out some new fun recipes. Get excited about cooking and eating this way again! Look here, friends. I’ve got a whole blog filled with hundreds of low carb recipes for your eating pleasure. And there are a number of other wonderful blogs creating amazing recipes to satisfy your hunger. Getting into the kitchen and cooking up some of your favourites, or a few new ones that catch your eye, is the best way to get back on plan. The food is beyond delicious and if you remind yourself of that, you may wonder why you ever fell off the wagon in the first place!
Words of Wisdom from fellow low carb experts!
Maria Emmerich of Keto Adapted: Remember how you feel when you cheat. Maybe journal about how your body and mind feels; but however you record that moment just remember that a moment of that indulgence created a whole day or more of feeling awful. Get your cooking inspiration on and start tomorrow as day one. Plan plan plan equals success!
Sooze Gibbs of Fluffy Chix Cook: Newsflash! We’ve all hit a roadbump, a snag in the low carb keto river and washed out, landing face down in our favorite “fill-in-your-high-carbage-poison-here.” And reality? We’ve lived to tell about it. What you need to know is that you are a winner as long as you get up one time more than the number of times you fall down. Fall down. Get up. Make the VERY next bite, the best, most true low carb bite you can possibly make it. Get RIGHT back on your gameplan. Don’t wait and don’t use the fall as an excuse to take the day off, the week off, the month off…cuz trust a Fluffy Chix, sometimes Monday never comes. And you do NOT want to become part of the daily news with film of your epic fall-from-low-carb-grace at 11.
Mellissa Sevigny of I Breathe…I’m Hungry: This goes against convention and your natural impulse to stay in denial, but what helps me is to get on the scale IMMEDIATELY. Even if the damage isn’t apparent yet, it will hold you accountable and you’ll see that number going up even if it’s in your head and it will remind you how far you’ve come (and maybe how far you still have to go.) The tendency is to avoid the scale out of guilt and shame, but then the consequences of going off the rails are easier to ignore because they aren’t staring up at you in plain sight. The damage will show on the scale before it shows in your clothes which might not happen for days or even a week, and by then if you’re still binging you could have already gained 5 pounds or more. Getting on the scale right away for me is more likely to stop my cheating in its tracks and get me back on the wagon before any significant damage is done.
Elviira Krebber of Low Carb, So Simple: After cheating, listen to your body and wait until you are truly hungry (drink water first to check that you are not thirsty). Then eat a meal that consists of relatively high amount of protein (I prefer chicken or salmon), high amount of fat (like mayonnaise or butter) and almost no carbs (so a real LCHF meal). Eat until you are satisfied — this is important — but don’t overeat. When you are satisfied with protein and fat, you get back on track easier and it’s less likely that you start craving for something unhealthy. Moreover, after a LCHF meal it takes hours before you feel the need to eat something.
Martina Slajerova of Keto Diet App: What works for me if I eat more carbs than I should is a long walk or some kind of cardio exercise either the same day or the day after. Cardio will help you get rid of excess sugar from your cheat meal. Then for about a week I avoid treats (even healthy low-carb treats) and nuts. I also eat less or no dairy. I just stick with simple foods like eggs, leafy greens and non-starchy vegetables, meat, avocados, lots of olive oil and coconut oil.
Brenda Bennett of Sugar Free Mom: You made a mistake, no one’s perfect, you don’t need to be perfect to make a sustainable sugar free lifestyle that works for you. Intense sweat sessions always make me feel better. Planning ahead and tracking my food for the next meal or next day after a difficult day of poor choices always helps.
shine says
There is a low carb cruise that I think Jimmy Moore does. Have you heard about that one? Thanks for all kind words!
Carolyn says
Yes, I have heard of that cruise, it’s quite popular.
Jill says
All tips very helpful
hankg says
Surely you have serious health problems of you eat ONE MEAL that is not strictly keto and experience all those symptoms.
Carolyn says
No it actually has nothing to do with “serious health problems” and everything to do with being keto for long enough that my body has been cleansed of the crap and toxins. Once they are consumed again, they really wreak havoc. Many truly keto-adapted people experience this.
Julie Hansen says
I was sick and had to be hospitalized for 4 days less than a week ago. I tried to stay on Keto but the menu didn’t have very many choices. I had french toast for two days baked potato two days and tried get some healthy salmon and Chicken in between. Now I’m feeling terrible. I’ve never went this long with cheating. After 5 months I’m down 60 pounds but in those few short days I gained 5 back. Now tonight I had 3 slices of pizza. Help!
Carolyn says
Help is here. Honestly, Julie, your cravings kicked in again and it’s going to be hard to conquer but you must… for your own sake. Stop, take a deep breath, forgive yourself for the slip (hard to stay on track in the hospital) and get ready to start again. Don’t go near foods like pizza, don’t allow yourself the opportunity, but find recipes that give you the same great flavors. Like my Pizza Chicken.
Prep your home and your pantry for re-committing. It will be worth it, but you will have to gut it out for a few days until you re-adjust.
Jillian Dixon says
Thank you for this blog. I’ve been backsliding for weeks and have gained 13 lbs. Now I feel ready to jump right back on that Christmas Party bound wagon. ????????
Kesa says
I started Keto about 3 weeks ago, so far I have lost 9 lbs. I have been off for the past four days even though I’m not eating horribly wrong, I had sugar, cookies and bread! I feel really bad about this bc I have a very important physical fitness test in the next three weeks. I do cardio daily and I have continuous tried to get back to Keto but it’s been a struggle. I really need something for my appetite…
Jenny Ham says
I would try the Slow Cooker Broccoli Cheese Soup
Judith Keevh says
Love the article! Love your recipes! We can all inspire each other!
Christina says
I just pick myself up like nothing happened. Also it seems when I go off track, I naturally fast most of the next day. I’m just not hungry? So I guess that helps too.
Adi says
Something else – there are good reasons to go off Keto for short periods of time. Traveling to Italy? You SHOULD go off the low carbs for once in a lifetime opportunities. Getting back on Keto is a very good idea after though!
I went to Bangkok for a business trip and I ate noodles, rice, and anything else they served me. I have found though, that after being on Keto for so long that it was not difficult to go back. So take heart – going back on Keto is easier than starting from scratch.
Also – I found fat bombs to be one of the easiest ways to get back on the wagon. They are a fast snack, takes no thinking, and increases fat. Awesome.
Mary says
This isn’t about “cheating”, since my granddaughter is T1D, she cannot “cheat” but a big Thank you for you recipes. I never have to worry that they won’t work out and you have made it so she can enjoy food filled holidays just like everyone else. As she ate her “own” cookies, I mentally thanked you for all your efforts to make recipes fun and good for her.
Carolyn says
I am so glad to hear it, Mary!
Andrea Immelman says
I really need to get back on keto, hubby not interested and he eats all the wrong things.
I’m in a rut. Can I reduce serving size and freeze what I make ?
Thanks
Andrea(South Africa)
ps. Is your book available here?
I dont think I can order from Amazon.
Carolyn says
You can freeze a lot of my recipes. Also…search my blog for “Mini” because I’ve been making a bunch of small batch recipes too. I am not sure where my book is available in South Africa, although I do have some readers there that said they’ve ordered it. I wish I knew from where!
Andrea Immelman says
Thanks so much for your reply, I will look for the mini recipes. I’m sure it will help me a lot.
Sara says
I’ve been on Keto for about two months and for the first time ever I’m seeing the scales move the right way. Yesterday though, I cheated. Not huge – but I did cheat. This article couldn’t have come up on Facebook at a better time. I’m going to shake it off, remind myself of feeling like poo, and jump right back on that wagon!!!
Carolyn says
That’s the spirit!
Carma says
I fell off after my blood work came back. In May the numbers looked great in August wow wrong
direction.. Yet! I was losing and feeling great but the numbers kept me worrying. Any suggestions? I’m up about 5 pound and don’t want it to keep going that direction. Need a reset pep talk.
Carma says
I fell off after my blood work came back. In May the numbers looked great in August wow wrong direction.. Yet! I was losing and feeling great but the numbers kept me worrying. Any suggestions? I’m up about 5 pound and don’t want it took keep going that distraction. Need a reset pep talk.
Carolyn says
I am not sure what numbers we are referring to?
carol cox says
Thank you for all your lovely recipes. They have really helped on my low carb/healthy fat road. I was diagnosed with T2 on 7.3.15 with HbA1c of 97, weight 83kg (182 lbs). My last test was HbA1c 41, weight 51kg (112 lbs). I did have a worry when starting to eat fat as we have all been brainwashed by the low fat (full of sugar) foods. I have cream in my coffee & lots of cheese, olive oil and butter What I do find annoying is the re-naming of sugar which means that one has to be a scientist to figure it out. I would not wish to go back to my previous eating regime as I enjoy LCHF too much. Keep up the good work and thank you again.
Carol
Carolyn says
So glad you are doing well!
Brian Johnson says
Why am I not losing weight
PattyAnn says
Thank you SO MUCH for this article! I’ve been on and off the no carb wagon for a while now; eating no carbs and feeling great one day, gorging on carbs and feeling crappy the next! And I’m always beating myself up for failing, and yet, I do it again! Ugh! It’s a vicious cycle. This article was what I needed!! I’m going to read it often! Thank you!
Heather Harris says
Thank you so much for this article. I fell off the lchf plan last night with Halloween candy. Fell hard. Lol
Not feeling so great today and determined to get back on track immediately. This article helped me know what to do and what to expect. Knowing that I may struggle for a day or two helps me to prepare mentally for it and have the confidence that I can make it theougb. Thank you again
Carolyn says
I am so delighted you find it helpful!
Gatfly says
How do I manage with this diet – I am a bread-aholic!!
Carolyn says
There is plenty of low carb bread you can make. You can even buy some, although I haven’t found many I like.
Janet says
This is the bread recipe I use. It is delicious…tastes and acts like real bread. You can make croutons, crumbs, rolls etc out of it….even pizza…but for that I personally use FatHead dough.
http://low-carb-scams.com/low-carb-carbalose-flour-bread/